“Healthy, secure relationships are a source of vital energy… People feel good when they understand how to be successful partners”
Relationships are messy, and all couples experience conflict. Becoming skillful at repairing those conflicts quickly is the ultimate goal, but when we are in distress, under threat, or in the heat of an argument, it can be hard to stay connected to the (higher cortical) parts of our brain, which use intelligence to create and maintain peace and harmony.
Read MoreIf a couple can revive their fondness and admiration for each other, they are more likely to approach conflict resolution as a team.
Read MoreYour success is my success. If one partner wins at the other’s expense – then both partners lose. There are certain codes, creeds, maxims, and attitudes that serve, solidify, and support the foundation of long lasting loving relationships.
Read MoreLoving in a way that supports, energizes, and grows a long-term relationship means loving your partner the way he or she needs to be loved. Many well-intended people unconsciously get caught instead in the destructive loop of offering their partner the kind of support, care, attention, and love they themselves thrive on, only to be left feeling unseen, unsuccessful, misunderstood, and lonely, which often leads to defensiveness and fighting.
Read MoreWhen a betrayal has been discovered in their relationship, couples come to therapy feeling lost, disoriented, confused, and angry. They may even wonder if there is hope. Infidelity strips away happiness and threatens emotional security.
Read MoreHealthy, secure relationships are a source of vital energy. PACT therapists know people feel good when they understand how to be successful partners. We are energized by a secure connection to another person. Our need to be securely attached is so powerful that it can get us through the hardest of times and help us float through day-to-day routines with ease, skill, and grace.
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